Sunday, August 10, 2025

From the Rector
The Rev'd Dante A. Tavolaro
Dear People of St Thomas,
This is not the letter I thought you would be reading this week. Before I left for my sabbatical and vacation, I wrote a piece about the importance of time of rest and restoration; encouraging us all to do that which feeds our souls, taking full advantage of all that our beloved Ocean State has to offer. But, as we know all too well, sometimes things do not go as planned. Sadly, that is true for my sabbatical.
While June was quite profound, magical even, things went south quickly in July. As some of you are aware, last year I was diagnosed with degenerative disc disease. My understanding is that 90% of people have it by the time they are 60, and 30% by 35. Of those, a small number have significant symptoms - guess I won the genetic lottery. For me, the L4-L5 disc in my spine is collapsing and pushing against my sciatic nerve. That is why I was using a cane through the Spring of 2024. Thankfully with the help of medical intervention (epidural corticosteroid injection) and physical therapy I was able to resume all normal activity. When I noticed symptoms on my left side, previously was only symptomatic on the right, I called my doctor, and we scheduled another injection. Things were in place, and I was able to carry on with minimal limitations. That was all true until June 30. That evening I moved the wrong way and was instantly in significant pain. By the next night I was in the worst pain of my life, barely able to move or walk. Thing were so bad I ended up in the emergency room (the first of two visits through the month).
On July 10 I had the injection and hoped that would get me back on my feet. Three weeks later I had my follow up and was saddened by the fact that I had not made as much progress as I had hoped: only able to stand for a few minutes at a time, struggled to walk upright, and dealing with fairly constant pain of varying degree. My medical provider however was not surprised and told me that all of this was completely normal, especially given the place I was in prior to the injection. A moment of great emotional relief. The best next step is to have another injection, which is scheduled for August 21. My doctor has told me I am an excellent candidate for this, and we hope this will get me back on my feet. But there are no guarantees and sometimes people can need up to 3 injections in acute situations.
Given where I am now, the uncertainty of how I will respond to the next injection, and in consultation with my doctor and the support of the Bishop, I have made the decision to end my sabbatical a few days early, cancel my vacation, and go on medical leave. I am sure you have many questions so let me try to anticipate a few.
When will I return? Given that I am making slight progress each day (I actually left my house for the first time the other day and not just for a trip to the ER or doctor’s office!), and have responded well to the injections before, I am living in deep hope that I will return to the parish along the original sabbatical/vacation timeline. While I may not be gone any longer than originally anticipated, going on medical leave allows me flexibility so that I do not have to rush my recovery and risk further set back.
What happens if I am gone longer than anticipated? The Bishop has offered his support to work with the Wardens to make sure that the parish has the clergy coverage it needs. But, hopefully it will not come to that.
What does this mean financially for the parish? Short term disability is different for clergy as we do not pay TDI. Therefore, our medical leave does not go through the state, but rather through the Church Pension Fund. My understanding is that the parish will be reimbursed for 70% of my compensation during my leave. Jane, our bookkeeper and administrator, also works for the Finance office of the Diocese and can explain this better than I can. Bottom line, this will not negatively affect the parish.
I know that this might cause some fear and anxiety in our community, I am sorry for that. Please know I have every intention in returning to our community. I look forward to continuing the good work that God has called us to do. In the meantime, I give profound thanks to our parish leadership for their work in keeping things going, and to all our volunteers who work so diligently in the ministries of our community. We are blessed indeed.
I ask your prayers for my continued recovery, especially for patience as being couch-bound is wearing rather thin. Please know that you all remain in my prayers as well. With my abiding gratitude.









